Servant First: Rooted in Service

Of all the titles I hold—journalist, educator, author—the one that means the most to me is servant.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve had a deep desire to help others. I don’t know if it comes from wanting to see people in a better place or simply from the joy I get in making someone’s life just a little easier. Serving brings me peace, and I find purpose in being the hands and feet of Jesus. It’s not just a calling—it’s who I am at my core.

Now, I know I can’t help everyone or do everything, but throughout my career as an educator, I’ve discovered my niche: supporting those who work directly with children—both parents and teachers. Over time, my work in coaching and consulting has shown me that those guiding the next generation need support too. And that support works best when done together, not in isolation.

Parents and educators are two of the most influential people in a child’s life. They shape not only minds but character, confidence, and future possibilities. That’s why I approach my work with a delicate balance—always staying teachable as a student myself, while also guiding as an educator. This balance keeps my work relevant and grounded.

I genuinely enjoy the process of helping others find their best approach—whether it’s partnering with a parent or walking alongside a teacher. Building relationships is at the heart of everything I do. With parents, my goal is never to “teach” them how to parent, but to partner with them as their child grows and learns. That partnership has allowed me to impact many families—and in turn, hundreds of children.

As an instructional coach, I’ve learned that relationships are just as important with educators. Teachers often don’t respond well to being “told” what to do (and honestly, who does?). Instead, I choose to collaborate, to listen, and to grow together.

There’s a quote I live by:

“When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” — Lao Tzu

I believe this applies to both children and adults. Real learning happens through relationship, trust, and readiness.

This work is not something I take lightly. It’s my calling, my ministry, and my passion. And through it all, I strive to serve—with love, compassion, and an open heart.